Do you have an easy time compromising in your partnership? How much do you allow yourself to bring yourself in relationship and how much do you allow them to do the same?
These are relevant questions to think about determines whether a relationship is healthy or successful is having a strong element of reciprocity and mutuality.
This doesn't mean having a "tit-for-tat" mentality, where you are only doing something because you want or expect something in return. No, it means that both you and your partner and willing to bring yourselves as fully as you can in relation to one another and being present in the true sense of the world. If you feel like that is something lacking in your partnership, get curious about how you can shift that.
It is important to take care of the day to day aspects that are necessary to tend to in order to have a healthy, working relationship, it is also just as important to take care of the "higher" dimensions of your partnership.
By higher, one means the more cosmic and spiritual parts of it. It is important that you feel you and your partner have a connection that goes beyond the material, emotional and mental level, as that allows the foundation of your connection to be rooted in something much deeper and less temporary.
This is because this allows you to pursue something that calls you and not feeling like it is at odds with your romantic life but rather compliments it. This also gives you something to connect with your partner through.