Simple and actionable guide to improving your relationship with your partner


* Female: spontaneity, trust everybody, higher mind, truth, forthright and honest people.

* Man: stability, do not like surprises or sudden changes, have trust issues, honest, tact and poise, skeptical nature of others.

Generally, Both of you barely bond that’s like oil on water: they coexist but never mix. Put together as a couple: you’re hardly sexually attracted to each other because you find it difficult to overcome your differences. But you’re existing mutual feelings of affection. You’re both compassionate, kind and like to see the best in others. You’re both relentless in pursuit of your dreams, and this could also work in your favor.

Guide to improving (duration: 1 month)

Day 1: Become a better listener

While our society puts a great deal of emphasis on talking, if you can learn to listen in a way that makes another person feel valued and understood, you can build a deeper, stronger connection between you.

There’s a big difference between listening in this way and simply hearing. When you really listen—when you’re engaged with what’s being said—you’ll hear the subtle intonations in your partner’s voice that tells you how they’re really feeling and the emotions they’re trying to communicate. Being a good listener doesn’t mean you have to agree with your partner or change your mind. But it will help you find common points of view that can help you to resolve conflict.

The art of listening is the art of seduction. Everyone loves a good listener, and so does your lover. Instead of always ranting on about yourself, why not dedicate today to just listening...listening to every single word your partner says.

Day 2: Talk about your secret dreams

It always feels good when your partner shows interest in you. Let your lover know you want to learn more about inner hopes and dreams. Not only will you get to know him/her better but you will also see which of these dreams match yours. He/She is a complex individual, there is a lot more than meets the eye. You will be amazed and pleasantly surprised by what you see when you enter your partner’s world. Try to open up and show each other your true selves.

Day 3: Recognize what’s important to your partner

Knowing what is truly important to your partner can go a long way towards building goodwill and an atmosphere of compromise.

On the flip side, it’s also important for your partner to recognize your wants. Therefore don’t wait until will make a guess. Instead, state them clearly. In relationship with him/her, it’s important to know and recognize each other’s values, priorities and goals. Therefore make sure you get this covered.

Day 4: Dedicate this evening to memories

Do you remember why you fell in love with your partner in the first place? Do your best to find those tiny details beautiful again and appreciate them too. Besides, today would be a good idea to spend the evening together bringing back all the good memories and discussing some of the best moments you’ve had together: funny holidays, exciting trips, cool purchases, hard and nice times.

Your partner is a type of person who finds it fun to reminisce about the past. Therefore, make sure this opportunity is available today.

Day 5: Tell your partner what you need, don’t make them guess.

It’s not always easy to talk about what you need. For one, many of us don’t spend enough time thinking about what’s really important to us in a relationship. And even if you do know what you need, talking about it can make you feel vulnerable, embarrassed, or even ashamed. But look at it from your partner’s point of view. Providing comfort and understanding to someone you love is a pleasure, not a burden. If you’ve known each other for a while, you may assume that your partner has a pretty good idea of what you are thinking and what you need. However, He/She is rarely a mind-reader. While your partner may have some idea, it is much healthier to express your needs directly to avoid any confusion. What’s more, people change, and what you needed and wanted five years ago, for example, may be very different now. So instead of letting resentment, misunderstanding, or anger grow when your partner continually gets it wrong, get in the habit of telling exactly what you need.

Day 6: Stop overthinking

Giving this combination of your partner, the only person that can get between you and a fruitful relationship with your partner is yourself. So stop living in your own head. Stop overthinking situations, stop making rash decisions. Enjoy every moment with a laissez-faire attitude!

Take this seriously and do your best to develop a habit of taking things easier in your relationship. No one has ever listed ‘overthinking’ among the habits that may ever improve the relationship. Therefore, dedicate this day to eliminating this habit in order to take your relationship with your partner to the next level.

Day 7: Binge watch the latest Netflix hit

Netflix and chill...

It’s more than just a movement. It’s a time to explore your lover’s preferences, to bond, to remember that love is built upon spending quality time together. So why not put all things off and see just what’s trending today?

Day 8: Dedicate this day to becoming more compassionate

Nothing turns your partner on more than seeing just how sweet and sensitive you are. Yes, show that you care about the world, that you love others, that you will go above and beyond just to ensure that your lover remains safely in your arms! The process of relationship improvement starts with you. Therefore, invest your time in becoming better. This very trait is what your partner is definitely going to appreciate.

Day 9: Compliment your partner

Are you good at complimenting people? It’s time to improve this skill. A compliment from you to him/her will leave your partner ecstatic. Your partner needs to hear it from you to open up and feel acknowledged and appreciated. Complimenting your partner on today's look, past achievements or future plans and ambitions will make him/her feel incredible!

Dedicate this day to compliments and contribute to your relationship via saying nice and kind words.

Day 10: Learn to love yourself to become more attractive to your partner

The universe loves those who love themselves. So love yourself abundantly, take care of yourself, look good, smell fresh, work smart, and your lover will find you ten times more attractive than the first time your partner saw you! Over time, you will discover that loving yourself improves everything in your life—your relationships, your health and well-being, your ability to manifest your dreams, and your self-esteem. This is what your Natal Chart readings say too. Loving and connecting with yourself is the key to being able to love and connect with others and create loving relationships. Loving yourself is the key to creating a passionate, fulfilled, and joyful life.

Day 11: Reminisce about the times you laughed

Laughter is a gift from the gods. Today is the day to remember all those hearty laughs you’ve heard together about this and that. Bring memories back and recall all those warm and funny moments you’ve been through. And if you can make your partner laugh some more, then by all means, go for it today!

Day 12: Dedicate this evening to discussing your favorite books

One of the best ways to learn more about a person is by discovering what kind of books they like to read. And it works for your partner too. Tonight may be a great time to initialize this conversation with him/her. It will most certainly make your bond stronger. Today start a conversation about the books. Ask your partner about the favorite books and ask for book recommendations.

Day 13: Take a walk together

A stroll will be a perfect bonding activity between you and your lover today. Just soaking in that cool, calm breeze, as you gaze into each other’s eyes is enough to kick all the problems of the world goodbye!

Turn all your devices off and take a good walk. Have a nice talk, discuss random things, notice and enjoy small things along the way.

Day 14: Ask how you can help your partner

We all have bad days and daily problems that trouble us. It’s crucial in any relationship to let the other side know that they can talk to you about anything, good or bad. Create a safe environment for him/her and let your partner confide in you. He/She is the one who needs to feel constant support. Make sure you get this covered and see your relationship thrive.

Day 15: Change something radically in your look

When was the last time that you changed anything in your look? Maybe now this is the perfect timing for a noticeable change. Your partner is a demanding person who always needs something new, exciting and cool. You can get a haircut, dye your hair or choose a new fashion style. Your partner will be intrigued and pleasantly surprised. You will gain more confidence and have fun doing it.

Day 16: Go